There is a continuum on which people define the self narrowly, versus expansively.
Self
Immeasureable/ ß----------------------------------------------------------à Narrow, Limited
Unknown
Undefined ß-------------------------------------------------------------------à
Strictly defined
Open to experience ß----------------------------------------------------à Closed-minded
Negative
A non-conformist may lose the benefits of belonging to a religious or political
group.
Understanding
of the world as it is with wars, poverty, and starvation not easily under our
control may cause pessimism and negative feelings if not understood fully.
Being too open one may fail to avoid danger.
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Positive
Ability to see
clearly what is happening due to not being clouded with ideologies.
.
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Positive
May provide some protection by conforming to the beliefs
of a powerful group such as Christians
or Communists.
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Negative
Inability to
understand clearly what’s going on in the world due to a very limited
viewpoint such as those coming from religions or political ideologies.
Constant conflict
with the world due to having a worldview, be it Christian, Communist,
Islamic, etc that does not fit with observations from real life.
Limiting one’s actions and opportunity to conform to self
expectations.
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The following continuum generally define a mind that is free
and exploratory versus a mind that is fixed, conservative, narrow, and strictly
defined. We would generally want to go toward
a more free open-minded mind, the column with borders on the chart. The
therapist dealing with a narrow mind that is fixed and conservative and in conflict
would try to deconstruct that way of thinking without getting into metaphysics
about which god exists or which political ideology is right or best. What is important to know is that they are
attempts to escape from fear, and attempt to flee from reality which is free
for all to see but few will look at it honestly. It is the journey of the therapist and client
to get to that sense of honesty about the world that deconstructs conflicts in
the mind.
DF Seldon
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